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We have a genuinely free basic membership level. Although many members like to upgrade, many others find dates and love on our site without paying. [Read More]
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This is the great time-saving way of starting your profile and logging into the site. If you give us the OK we can copy across your photo and a few basic details from your Facebook profile.
 
A bit more
about us...
Over 250,000 people have been online dating with us since we founded way back in 1999.

We have a genuinely free basic membership level. Although many members like to upgrade, many others find dates and love on our site without paying.

Often referred to in the media as 'Internet Dating for Thinking People' - we attract interesting people in interesting jobs.

Our profiles are more in-depth than most dating sites, which gives members the chance to better get their personality and values across. We also have a well known 100 question compatibility matching test that gets great results.

Lots of 'dating' members make friends on the way to the 'love' bit. You can get an idea of our members from looking at profiles and our success stories pages.
 
Current News
Singles Party

Saturday, 6th September 2014 7:30 PM  BOOK NOW

Our Singles Party will take place on Saturday 6th September at the Union Bar near Baker Street. We...
 
Success Story
"High-time that I terminated my membership"
"I met the most wonderful man through l&f in June 2002. I thought it was high-time that I terminated my membership. Thanks for everything. "