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Rethinking dating
6 November 2007
People may have the wrong idea when it comes to dating techniques, a relationships expert has claimed.
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While many believe that the way to find their ideal partner is to play hard to get and go out on what could be described as hunting expeditions to look for the ideal partner, it is more important o make sure you can be yourself and put forward your true character from the off.
Opram.com recommends that people make sure they know themselves before seeking the love of their lives. It is only when you have enough confidence in yourself and can act naturally that you will not depend on the other person to give you identity.
Secondly, people should value themselves and not just go for anyone. When people are single for a long time, they are often told by friends that they are being too picky.
But being selective with the people you are interested in simply shows that you have respect for yourself and that you are not prepared to waste time on people who do not have the potential you want.
And while daters are always told to make themselves seem busy and unavailable to a potential suitor, even if it means not picking up the phone to give the impression you are out and about, the new refreshing angle is to actually be busy.
The more busy you are, the more attractive you will be and the less you will depend on a lover to fill parts of your life.
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